“Forgiveness means changing your misperceptions. When we forgive another for anything that he or she may have done to us, we are really saying, “I no longer give you the power to control who I am, how I think, and how I’ll behave in the future. I take responsibility for all of that now.” Thus we really have nothing to forgive, since we create our own reality by how we choose to process the behavior of others.
We processed it in a way that hurt us when we chose blame. We might have chosen not to have hatred within ourselves and simply let it go. Once we change our perceptions of life’s hurts and pains and see that we create all that we need for this dream, including the scoundrels, we no longer need to blame anyone for anything. This is the most freeing stage to reach that you can imagine.”
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, in “You’ll See It When You Believe It”
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