“Nothing will bring about an inner feeling of turmoil faster than allowing yourself to be seduced into fighting or arguing. You always have a choice. Always! To argue or not to argue. To confront or not to confront.
When you opt for arguing or confronting, you’re allowing the ego to push your higher self into the background. Here is your ego speaking to you: “You are separate from your spouse/that clerk/those bureaucrats. You need to show them how special you are and that you can’t be pushed around. Go ahead and tell them your point of view and don’t listen to what they have to say.”
Behind this approach to life is the ever present need to be right. When you give up the need to be right, you no longer need the turmoil.”
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, in “Your Sacred Self”
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