Category Archives: Judgment

BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, March 27th, 2015 by Michael Tamura in YOU ARE THE ANSWER

“When you find yourself judging others harshly, remember that your upset is not about them. It’s about you not being able to forgive and love yourself because you are holding that judgment inside of you. If in the past you … Continue reading

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Best of PONDER on THIS for Monday, March 2nd, 2015 by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer in YOUR SACRED SELF

“When you are involved in discussions that revolve around taking pot-shots at individuals who are not present, practice defending the person in his or her absence. Make a habit of being the one person in the group who defends the … Continue reading

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PONDER on THIS for Thursday, February 12th, 2015 by Paul Ferrini in THE SILENCE OF THE HEART

“When the mind is closed, the heart shuts down, and vice versa. It doesn’t really matter which one closes first, the other one isn’t far behind. Don’t expect the mind to stay open. It won’t. An open mind is a … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Wednesday, October 1st, 2014 by Arnold Patent in YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL

“Our rational society has taught us to judge, analyze, or evaluate virtually everything we experience. So ingrained is this training, that we feel incomplete when we haven’t processed each experience in this way. Yet judging, evaluating or analyzing anybody inhibits … Continue reading

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Best of PONDER on THIS for Friday, August 15th, 2014 by Fr. Anthony DeMello in THE WAY TO LOVE

“How easily we are taken in by the judgment of other people and then form an image of ourselves based on this judgment. In order to be truly liberated you need to listen to the so-called good and bad things … Continue reading

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PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, July 29th, 2014 by Donald Altman in THE MINDFULNESS CODE

“Being judgmental is not the same as being discriminating and discerning and not the same as evaluating and analyzing in order to arrive at a decision or to make comparisons. A judgmental mind can be a dangerous thing. It gets … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Wednesday, May 14th, 2014 by Stuart Wilde in INFINITE SELF

“Think about it. If you don’t judge and don’t criticize, what you’re saying is, “I’m infinite. I let people be. I have no knowledge about an individual’s evolution. I can’t comprehend if what he/she is doing is good or evil, … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Monday, December 2nd, 2013 by Fr. Anthony DeMello in AWARENESS

“Do you want to change the world? How about beginning with yourself? How about being transformed yourself first? But how do you achieve that? Through observation. Through understanding. With no interference or judgment on your part. Because what you judge … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Monday, May 27th, 2013 by Debbie Ford in THE DARK SIDE OF THE LIGHT CHASERS

“We project our own perceived shortcomings onto others. We say to others what we should be saying to ourselves. When we judge others we are judging ourselves. If you constantly beat yourself up with negative thoughts, you will either beat … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Monday, May 20th, 2013 by Sanaya Roman in SPIRITUAL GROWTH

“When you judge others, you are often projecting your thoughts about reality onto them. Those thoughts may not describe them accurately at all! For instance, if you see people yelling at their children in a store, you might think they … Continue reading

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PONDER on THIS for Friday, February 1st, 2013 by Walter E. Jacobson M.D. in FORGIVE TO WIN

“Day to day, person to person, moment to moment, our judgmental thoughts must stop. This is not a simple task. We must continuously challenge the belief that we need judgmental thoughts to protect ourselves, prevail, and prosper in a chaotic, … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, October 26th, 2012 by Jeff Maziarek in SPIRITUALITY SIMPLIFIED

“One way to develop your open-mindedness is to begin to observe yourself as you are in the process of being exposed to new concepts. To do this, you essentially take the role of a witness to the process, as well … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Monday, July 23rd, 2012 by Arnold Patent in YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL

“Any discomfort we experience is a result of locking energy in our bodies. More particularly, it is a result of attaching thoughts to feelings. Something occurred in our experience which we interpreted in a way that created the attachment. This … Continue reading

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PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, July 3rd, 2012 by Cherie Carter-Scott in IF LIFE IS A GAME, THESE ARE THE RULES

“We view others through the grid of our past experiences, feelings, and thoughts. Usually we convince ourselves that our perceptions of them are objective and disconnected to any of our own issues. Consider, however, approaching your life as if other … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Monday, June 18th, 2012 by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer in YOU’LL SEE IT WHEN YOU BELIEVE IT

“The first thing to remember about judgments is that they do not alter anything or anyone in the Universe. Just because you dislike someone or react negatively toward some behavior does not change the person or behavior you are judging. … Continue reading

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