Category Archives: Self-blame

BEST of PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, September 12th, 2023 by Louise Hay in YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE

“When you scold yourself, when you berate yourself, when you “beat yourself up,” who do you think you’re treating this way? Almost all of our programming, both negative and positive, was accepted by us by the time we were three … Continue reading

Posted in Self-acceptance, Self-blame, Self-love, Self-worth | Tagged , | Comments Off on BEST of PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, September 12th, 2023 by Louise Hay in YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE

BEST of PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, July 11th, 2023 by Dianne Eppler Adams in CONSCIOUS FOOTSTEPS

“Many of us are haunted by persistent, self-critical thoughts like, “What makes you think you can do that? You’ll never do it right? What if you fail?” It doesn’t matter whether you have already proved yourself as capable in a … Continue reading

Posted in Self-blame | Tagged , | Comments Off on BEST of PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, July 11th, 2023 by Dianne Eppler Adams in CONSCIOUS FOOTSTEPS

BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, October 22nd, 2021 by Shakti Gawain in THE PATH OF TRANSFORMATION

“We are not to blame for the way our lives are unfolding. Blaming ourselves for our present reality is like blaming a child for being ten years old instead of twenty or thirty. We are evolving in a natural way. … Continue reading

Posted in Blame, Self-blame | Tagged , | Comments Off on BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, October 22nd, 2021 by Shakti Gawain in THE PATH OF TRANSFORMATION

BEST of PONDER on THIS for Thursday, March 12th, 2020 by William L. Murta in DYING FOR A CHANGE

“Please do not cast blame on yourself…To heap regret and recrimination on yourself misses the entire point of what it means to be human. We all fail at one time or another. We all fall short of our own teachings … Continue reading

Posted in Failure, Mistakes and errors, Self-blame | Tagged , | Comments Off on BEST of PONDER on THIS for Thursday, March 12th, 2020 by William L. Murta in DYING FOR A CHANGE

PONDER on THIS for Thursday, November 3rd, 2016 by Polly Campbell in HOW TO LIVE AN AWESOME LIFE

“When we treat ourselves kindly even after a mistake, we are more likely to try again. Research by developmental psychologist Kristin Neff and others also shows that self-compassion makes us more accountable and productive. This means we have a greater … Continue reading

Posted in Self-blame, Self-forgiveness | Tagged , | Comments Off on PONDER on THIS for Thursday, November 3rd, 2016 by Polly Campbell in HOW TO LIVE AN AWESOME LIFE

Best of PONDER on THIS for Friday, May 31st, 2013 by Louise Hay in YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE

“When you scold yourself, when you berate yourself, when you “beat yourself up,” who do you think you’re treating this way? Almost all of our programming, both negative and positive, was accepted by us by the time we were three … Continue reading

Posted in Self-acceptance, Self-blame, Self-love, Self-worth | Tagged , | Comments Off on Best of PONDER on THIS for Friday, May 31st, 2013 by Louise Hay in YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE

PONDER on THIS for Thursday, March 28th, 2013 by Dianne Eppler Adams in CONSCIOUS FOOTSTEPS

“Many of us are haunted by persistent, self-critical thoughts like, “What makes you think you can do that? You’ll never do it right? What if you fail?” It doesn’t matter whether you have already proved yourself as capable in a … Continue reading

Posted in Self-blame | Tagged , | Comments Off on PONDER on THIS for Thursday, March 28th, 2013 by Dianne Eppler Adams in CONSCIOUS FOOTSTEPS

BEST of PONDER on THIS for Wednesday, July 13th, 2011 by Shakti Gawain in THE PATH OF TRANSFORMATION

“We are not to blame for the way our lives are unfolding. Blaming ourselves for our present reality is like blaming a child for being ten years old instead of twenty or thirty. We are evolving in a natural way. … Continue reading

Posted in Blame, Self-blame | Tagged , | Comments Off on BEST of PONDER on THIS for Wednesday, July 13th, 2011 by Shakti Gawain in THE PATH OF TRANSFORMATION

PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, November 17th, 2009 by William Murtha in DYING FOR A CHANGE

“Please do not cast blame on yourself…To heap regret and recrimination on yourself misses the entire point of what it means to be human. We all fail at one time or another. We all fall short of our own teachings … Continue reading

Posted in Failure, Mistakes and errors, Self-blame | Tagged , | Comments Off on PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, November 17th, 2009 by William Murtha in DYING FOR A CHANGE