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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Wednesday, May 17th, 2023 by Walter E. Jacobson M.D. in FORGIVE TO WIN

“Day to day, person to person, moment to moment, our judgmental thoughts must stop. This is not a simple task. We must continuously challenge the belief that we need judgmental thoughts to protect ourselves, prevail, and prosper in a chaotic, … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, March 18th, 2022 by Walter E. Jacobson M.D. in FORGIVE TO WIN

Compiler’s note: Today marks the 23rd anniversary for “Ponder on This.” While I rarely post new content anymore [just ran out of gas in all sincerity :)], it’s my hope that the re-posted messages are providing value for you. FYI, … Continue reading

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Wednesday, February 2nd, 2022 by Walter E. Jacobson M.D. in FORGIVE TO WIN

“We are oftentimes reluctant to forgive others because we think that, by doing so, we are making the statement that: (1) We’re okay with what they did, (2) We’re letting them off the hook and not expecting them to be … Continue reading

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PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, November 11th, 2014 by Walter E. Jacobson M.D. in FORGIVE TO WIN

“There are no good reasons not to forgive others because, regardless of how others have behaved, if we don’t forgive them, we’re only hurting ourselves. We’re only perpetuating our own suffering. We think we’re punishing others when we withhold forgiveness. … Continue reading

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PONDER on THIS for Friday, February 1st, 2013 by Walter E. Jacobson M.D. in FORGIVE TO WIN

“Day to day, person to person, moment to moment, our judgmental thoughts must stop. This is not a simple task. We must continuously challenge the belief that we need judgmental thoughts to protect ourselves, prevail, and prosper in a chaotic, … Continue reading

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PONDER on THIS for Thursday, December 1st, 2011 by Walter E. Jacobson M.D. in FORGIVE TO WIN

“The only way to truly forgive ourselves is to forgive others. Here’s how it works: When we judge people, we believe our judgments are related to who we think they are or what we think they’ve done. On one level, … Continue reading

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PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, October 18, 2011 by Walter E. Jacobson M.D. in FORGIVE TO WIN

“We are oftentimes reluctant to forgive others because we think that, by doing so, we are making the statement that: (1) We’re okay with what they did, (2) We’re letting them off the hook and not expecting them to be … Continue reading

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