Category Archives: Relationships

BEST of PONDER on THIS for Thursday, November 9th, 2023 by Alan Cohen in WHY YOUR LIFE SUCKS AND WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT

Posted on November 8, 2023 by jmaz479

“In relationships, unless everyone is winning, no one is winning. If your connection is faltering, don’t linger in dissatisfaction. Either change the relationship or change your mind. You can usually find a way to upgrade the situation (or your attitude … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, November 3rd, 2023 by Stuart Wilde in INFINITE SELF

Posted on November 2, 2023 by jmaz479

“When people come to you and ask you for help, do as best as you can. Be kind, be generous, be gracious, be a big person and give of yourself – give of your energy. You don’t necessarily have to … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Thursday, November 2nd, 2023 by John Selby in EXPAND THIS MOMENT

Posted on November 1, 2023 by jmaz479

“Try this: bring to mind someone you know, anybody. Hold this person in your mind and heart a moment, then say to him or her: “I accept you just as you are.” Ah, what a relief! You feel a great … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, August 29th, 2023 by Arnold Patent in YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL

Posted on August 28, 2023 by jmaz479

“You can have a relationship with a person, have total commitment to the relationship, trust the other person completely and yet have no attachment to the person or to the relationship. You give the other person total freedom at all … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Thursday, April 27th, 2023 by Stuart Wilde in THE QUICKENING

Posted on April 26, 2023 by jmaz479

“We learn about ourselves through relationships because they reflect what we are back to us. If you are surrounded by nonsense that means you have allowed nonsense to establish itself in your life. Simple really. If your relationships are loving … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, February 24th, 2023 by DR. DEB SCHWARZ HIRSCHHORN IN THE HEALING IS MUTUAL

Posted on February 23, 2023 by jmaz479

“The concept of soul mates originated in the Biblical account of creation of the first people. According to the Biblical story, God indicated to Adam that in as much as it wouldn’t be good for him to be lonely, he … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, August 12th, 2022 by Esther and Jerry Hicks in GETTING INTO THE VORTEX

Posted on August 11, 2022 by jmaz479

“The person who comes right now will be a match to the essence of the person you are right now. When you are feeling misunderstood or lonely or unloved, you cannot find a mate who will offer anything different to … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, January 4th, 2022 by Leo Buscaglia in LOVING EACH OTHER

Posted on January 3, 2022 by jmaz479

“The very measure of a good relationship is in how much it encourages optimal intellectual, emotional, and spiritual growth. So, if a relationship becomes destructive, endangers our human dignity, prevents us from growing, continually depresses and demoralizes us – and … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, December 28th, 2021 by David Viscott in HOW TO LIVE WITH ANOTHER PERSON

Posted on December 27, 2021 by jmaz479

“Relationships seldom die because they suddenly have no life left in them. They wither slowly, either because people do not understand how much or what kind of upkeep, time, work, love and caring they require, or because people are too … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, August 20th, 2021 by Alan Cohen in WHY YOUR LIFE SUCKS AND WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT

Posted on August 19, 2021 by jmaz479

“In relationships, the primary motivator for manipulation is emotional insecurity. If I can get you to feel guilty, you will stay where I want you and do what I like. You will have sex with me, give me money, keep … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Wednesday, July 21st, 2021 by Don Miguel Ruiz in THE VOICE OF KNOWLEDGE

Posted on July 20, 2021 by jmaz479

Many people come to me and say, “Gosh, I want someone who loves me. I want the right man or the right woman to come into my life.” Who is the right man or the right woman? It’s not about … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Friday, May 7th, 2021 by Paul Ferrini in THE SILENCE OF THE HEART

Posted on May 6, 2021 by jmaz479

“Hard as it is to believe, emotional safety is not to be found in most relationships. That is because most relationships are addictive and temporary. They end in mutual distrust and/or abandonment. Yet, when we “fall in love,” we have … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Tuesday, April 6th, 2021 by Jerry and Ester Hicks in GETTING INTO THE VORTEX

Posted on April 5, 2021 by jmaz479

“If you have the developed the pattern of working hard to keep those around you happy, then when they are not happy, when they are presenting anger to you, you may feel that their anger has something to do with … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Thursday, February 11th, 2021 by Marianne Williamson in THE GIFT OF CHANGE

Posted on February 10, 2021 by jmaz479

“Every relationship is a teaching-learning assignment. Anyone we are destined to meet, we will. We are drawn to each other for teaching and learning, as each of us is presented with the chance to learn the next lesson in the … Continue reading →

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BEST of PONDER on THIS for Thursday, October 31st, 2019 by Gloria Wendroff in HEAVENLETTERS

Posted on October 30, 2019 by jmaz479

“You are not dependent upon the companionship of others as much as you tend to think you are. You are not any more integral to others’ lives than they are to yours. Yet how you want to keep everyone and … Continue reading →

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